Can Strip Clubs Be Good or Harmful To Your Relationship?

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Saturday, 15 December 2007

Despite massive changes over the last four decades in how the public in general view sex, divorce and same sex relationships, women in general are very much hesitant about allowing their liberal way of thinking to condone their male partner (or in some cases same sex partner) to visit a strip club. Today being a member of society whether we like it or not, we are dosed daily from television, radio, newspapers, magazines and video by what can be best described as 'sexual pollution'. Everywhere we turn there is a barely clothed woman standing provocatively, pouting her lips, shaking her ass, revealing or displaying her breasts in a manner that leaves little to the imagination, all the while appearing to be staring directly at you with those bedroom eyes.

With constant media bombardment, these sexual images are almost etched into our minds, perhaps even opening our minds to thoughts of infidelity. In a world of skyrocketing divorce and promiscuous sexual relationships, are women being level headed when denying a man's desire to visit a strip club.

Are women more correct in being skeptical and concerned about a mans reason for visiting a strip club and potentially falling victim to a lively, big busted, slim, sexy, long-legged and energetic blonde or brunette poll dancer?

It's not that uncommon for men to be invited by their friends or workmates in a harmless night-out on the town, and a strip club is generally on the agenda, and for any male who is married or in a steady relationship have all just about had to tackle this subject at one time or another.

So what are womens real fears? Is it a fear that you can't be trusted in close proximity of another woman in general, or is it just strippers?, have you proven yourself untrustworthy in the past?

The truth of the matter is, women fear other women, women believe that men have little ability to fight off the advances of a beautiful woman, that we are lead like lambs to the slaughter. Let's face it there is only one reason for a man to visit a strip club right?

Let's analyze that remark, as strip clubs have varying names and functions in some countries let's imagine we are referring to a strip club in the United States. For the most part, there are rules that customers cannot touch the women, in fact it's a legal requirement in most States, so a guy isn't going to have a opportunity or head-off to a strip club with aspirations of touching up a woman or two, even if a guy buys a lap-dance, he still can't touch the women.

For me it's one of the biggest turn-offs of going to both American or Australian strip clubs, you wine and dine, and look at beautiful women all night and get ... NOTHING, you come of out those clubs hours later wanting SEX more than ever. Hmmm, wouldn't that be a terrible thing ladies, if your boyfriend or husband actually came home all fired-up and wanting some real ass slapping, neck bitting, passionate sex!

Men are very visual in their attractions to the opposite sex, I'm not talking about forming relationships here, just raw attraction, men will always look at and admire a beautiful woman, is that so wrong? Is the process of enjoying the physical beauty of the opposite sex so obscene? Enjoying the beauty of a woman and thinking about having sex with her are two different things, allowing those thoughts to build in one's mind would be harmful to the relationship, every man needs to look at themselves and know their weaknesses, for some it's harder than others, we all love physical beauty, denying our natural chemical makeup is just plan torturing ourselves.

Just as with alcohol, know when you have had enough to drink, stop and walk out the bar, it's no different with a strip club, if you follow this advice as a man you will not substantiate your girlfriends or wifes worst fears.

For the ladies, before saying NO to your partner when approached about a night-out with the boys to a strip club, if you are unsure of how you feel, tell him that you would like to think about how you feel, rather than giving an answer on the spot, if it's because you don't trust him, the issue is not with him visiting strip clubs but rather because he has either proven untrustworthy to you in the past or because your afraid on him being seduced by other women, you need to tackle those issues first before making your mind over on strip clubs. Secondly do you really want to dictate to your partner can and cannot do, will saying no, stop him from going ahead anyway and visiting them without your knowledge? Isn't it better to know whether your husband or boyfriend is, with your approval rather than him going behind your back?

Strip clubs can be a very a good way to put the zing back into your relationship, so if the matter arises, why not ask your husband to go with you to a strip club, you can see first hand what goes on, you'll find it interesting, perhaps a little informative, (you might learn a thing or two). In sharing this experience together it might well put some much needed spark back into your relationship.

Strip clubs, just as pornography and even strip poker provides us with time-out from the pressures of the world we live in today, it's not the game or activity that we engage in that's wrong, it's not knowing your own or your partners limitations that can be dangerous.

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