Understanding The Stripper Psyche

Although all strip clubs are unique in their own way and dependant on the proprietor of the club, they share a common component that makes all strip clubs almost magnetic in their ability to continually attract new or repeat customers; some would believe the most important aspect of attracting customers would be a good stable of beautiful women, however that surprisingly is not what it’s all about.

Part of the fantasia or escape of a strip club is the setting, comfortable lay-back chairs situated in dark corners with obscured views so that clients feel they have privacy, they are waited on by indulging waiters or hostesses who ensure you are well and truly "liquored up" whist an alternating range of raunchy and soft music is played as a one or more beautiful woman, slowly and erotically strip before you on stage.

When you first enter any strip club you feel very much in control, your an observer, you have distance between you and your desired fantasy, you can choose to stay or leave, that's the power you have, you can choose to "play" or just "sit it out on the bench".  However be aware, the stripper is animalistic creature; a product of evolution, they have evolved their powers of seduction far beyond that which all women are naturally born with, so by entering any strip club you have just entered a realm that many men are just not capable of handling... unless of course they are powered with the understanding of how the stripper psyche works.

The moment you enter a strip club you are being watched and the moment you make eye contact with a stripper they know exactly how to keep it; you see a stripper will never look away from you, by looking away they are showing either shyness or disinterest, either-way that immediately looses you as a potential customer, a stripper will hold that stare for a few seconds, then smile, perhaps raise an eyebrow and then generally head straight towards you (they have found their prey), if the stripper is on stage they will pick a customer out of the crowd and hold eye contact with that customer whilst she slowly and erotically strips off.  This is the first step of stripper foreplay.

Next the stripper introduces herself, beautiful inviting smile, perhaps places her hand on your leg and of course makes you feel relaxed by commenting on your attire, looks or some other indulging remark.  Now this is where is where stripper strategy varies a little; the seasoned stripper will ask to sit down and chat with you and will not ask you to buy her a drink, she will invest a little of her time, ask you questions and listen to your answers, building a relationship with her client.  Soon you feel relaxed and almost obliged to buy her a drink.

Remember girls that are successful in strip clubs are so because they know how to smile, communicate, appear full of fun and vitality.  The girl will move in closer to you and make you feel there is a natural attraction process taking place, you both continue to talk and before you know it your buying her another drink, we are still in the foreplay process of the stripper at this stage.  Things are going to start to get complicated very soon...

WARNING: Do not go beyond this point unless you are planning to blow a lot of money on a stripper, if your out for a good evening, money isn't going to be an issue.  Don't bring a credit card with you, this is a mistake that just about every man has made, bring cash only, spend what you want to and LEAVE. If you bring a credit card and don't have very disciplined state of mind, as the the evening proceeds and your alcohol level increases, the experienced stripper will indulge your senses and empty your credit card.

Now if you've decided to indulge your senses a little; the stripper quickly moves from the harmless state of foreplay; she moves in closer, you are almost in an intoxicated state from her sweet smelling perfume, the manner in which she moves her body, her inviting lips, cleavage and well-toned body is almost irresistible and you decide to take a lap-dance with this lovely "Gift from God".  Let's face it, it's is truly harmless fun right?

The lovely lass leads you into a back-room and this is were she truly works her magic, as you sit there in a state of comfort, perhaps a little drunk if they have done their job well; eagerly awaiting what is about to unfold.  It's at this point that most men generally loose control, there is nothing quite like a young, beautiful and somewhat experienced woman, who knows how to touch you, her lustful gaze as she works that beautiful well kept figure, up and down, backwards and forwards rubbing your crutch to the point where it's really starting arouse your loins .... and then the music stops... the lap-dance is over.  Oh... that's it, and the irresistible stripper that you have just about fallen in love with by this point says; "hey honey, I really like you, pay for another song" ....

The snare is set ... you have a hard-on, unless you have a rock solid disposition harder than your erection, you.. like most guys are going to "pay for another song", don't beat yourself up, your human, just like every other guy out there, we all like a little "tit and ass" right?  OK, I'll stay just a little longer and besides, the girl is going through college, you feel like your almost donating the money to charity at this stage.  At this stage I don't need to say more, if you are like most guys you have probably fallen victim at least once, so how do we stay in control and have a good time without loosing our wallet?

Follow some of these guidelines and you'll leave in good shape;

1. Leave your credit card at home.
2. Come with a set amount that your prepared to spend to have a good time.
3. If you don't have a strong disposition, bring a friend to drag you out of the club if need be, if you don't know when to stop.
4. Stay in control by turning away a stripper's first approach, leave the door open but simply stating that you'd like to relax first with a cold beer and perhaps later you'd like company.
5. If a stripper drinks like a fish, (drinks too quickly) ask her to leave the table, she is focusing too much on your wallet and it's best to dump her early and find another companion that you can enjoy her company for a lot longer.
6. Remember your there to have fun and the stripper is there to make money, understand that, don't fall in love with her otherwise she will drain you dry, enjoy the evening and her company and leave with your dignity in tacked and a smile on your face.
7. Don't get sucked into repeat dances directly after one song, leave, have another drink and leave the door open for another lap-dance later on, you will find that your money will last longer and you will enjoy your evening a lot more.

All the negatives aside, the stripper provides a very needed service in the community, she provides that little bit of relief, relaxation and attention that we can't always get from our girlfriend or wife, and as many a divorced man will tell you it's cheaper to keep a stripper than a wife.

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