How To Take A Stripper Home With You

All men whether or not they wish to admit it, have and perhaps still do from time to time fantasize about bringing home a stripper; it’s the ultimate challenge, a “feather under the cap” so to speak. However convincing a stripper to come home with you isn’t necessarily easy, the more drop-dead gorgeous the girl the more seemingly impossible it is. Now I’m not talking about paying for the privilege, we are talking about getting a woman that wants to get you in the sack as much as you do her. Now what would make a woman that works in a strip club that is surrounded by men who are predominantly drunk, overweight, rude and perhaps even on the wrong side of 40 even think about taking a man home?

Well let’s just stop right here and say that women are not attracted to overweight, sloppy, overly drunk and ugly men, so if you are in this category then you need to improve your image before thinking about making your fantasy a reality.

So are strippers really interested in dating men who frequent strip clubs? Dumb question right, absolutely, strippers are looking only to strip men of their cash and send them home in a state of disbelief as to how she was able to convince you of emptying both your credit card and your wallet leaving you barely enough to take a taxi home.

So you want to know how to take a stripper home? Well for some men this might be easier than others and it’s not necessarily what you think, young, athletic men can find it just as hard as any other to accomplish this feat, so what does it take?

Let’s first take a look what turns women off in general;

• Being desperate – no matter how attractive a guy may look, being overly focused on getting her knickers off is going to make you look like at 13 year old.
• Men with big egos – having an over-inflated opinion of yourself detracts, talking about your material possessions (car, yacht, wealth etc.,).
• Uncleanliness.
• Obsession with sports.
• Overweight men with a pot-belly.
• Men who hand out too many compliments.
• Men who come across very sexually aggressive.
• Drunks and farters.

So what are strippers looking for? Strippers are looking exactly for the same thing that any other woman is looking for, but have an even more critical eye than the average woman, that’s because they get to chat and/or observe hundreds of men and their faults/habits on a weekly basis.

Well I’m not going to tell how to chat to women, in fact I’m going to tell you that by experience saying less is better, follow these few basic rules and you’ll find to them to be very successful:

• Never appear too interested in a stripper sexually, especially in the first 30-60 minutes while your building rapport with her; sounds hard especially if she suggests a lap-dance right;
• Decline lap-dances in the first few instances, keep buying her drinks to make it worthwhile to stay at your table;
• When the stripper asks why you are not interested in a lap-dance, just say that your here to relax, have a few drinks, some lovely conversation.
• If she questions that you are not attracted to her, simply say that you find her very attractive, but are enjoying her conversation at present and perhaps a little later as the evening progresses.
• Be light-hearted, a little humorous, ask her questions, appear to be sincerely interested in her and her conversation, don’t talk about yourself too much, if she questions you, be short and precise and divert the conversation back to her, and try not to stare at her tits and those lovely long legs.
• Women love a man with a friendly, outgoing personality, who treat them with respect, be honest, even about your failures, try humour to diffuse difficult questions, women love men with a sense of humour.
• Wait for her to make the first move, if she puts he hand on your leg or moves in a little closer and/or seems to be increasingly frustrated at the lack of sexual attention your showing her this is the time to reciprocate a little, but don’t start fondling her. Get the idea? You are playing a little hard to get. Nothing is more frustrating to a beautiful woman, when a man uses the same methods they use on us every day.
• If this is sounding more like a date than a night out in a strip club, your closer to the point. However there are big differences that I’m sure I don’t have to explain.
• After you have spoken to her for a couple of hours and she is becoming a little frustrated at the lack of sexual attention, treat her to a lap-dance, and another shortly after that, the purpose of the lap-dance here is to show you are interested in her physically, if any magic is going to happen with this woman she will generally show it in the first lap-dance and definitely no later than the second. If she goes just that little extra in a lap dance you know that she has an interest in you. If by this time she hasn’t already asked for your phone number it’s the time to drop yours, you will she will be very forthcoming about it and happy you asked, especially after ignoring her sexually advances all evening.

Women tend to be more sexually interested in men when they hit 40, more so than the young, athletic and somewhat immature 20 year-old. Women love experienced men, mature men are less possessive, more confident and less egotistic. Mature men know how, and how often to compliment a woman, all of which women find very attractive.

Follow these very basic steps and you will find that you will be able to take home or date a stripper as often as you like.