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Just about anyone who has visited strip clubs on a frequent basis will eventually, depending on how
you look at it, fall victim or fall in love to the charms of a stripper.
Let’s face it there is a lot of pleasure gained from paying for something and having it delivered upon request, without argument, judgment, feeling obligated or guilty in anyway
whatsoever, just like you’d order a hamburger at your local McDonalds or Burger
King, you pay your money and the goods are delivered.
The ability to get what you want when you need it … regardless the fact that your paying for the
privilege, can trigger feelings down deep and you might find yourself somewhat
becoming more and more attracted to the young hostess serving your needs. Now I’m not talking about a purely sexual attraction (even though you are in a strip club), because believe it or not you can actually find some very genuine women working in strip clubs.
Not to get distracted about the purpose of this article but there are several reasons why women will work in strip clubs, and any man that has visited a strip club on more than one
occasion would have heard them all … there is the struggling young college girl
paying her way through college, the single mum raising her children, the
business type … (generally not interested in relationships), wants to buy a
house in 2-3 years flat and then there is the traumatized, problematic,
runaway, hooker or ex-hooker type that strips as a means to support their
habit, and need I say, keep as far away as possible from the latter.
So you have met a “lovely young lass” in a strip club?
You’ve obviously haven’t read my previous article “Understanding The Stripper Psyche So You Can Have Fun and Not Lose Your Wallet”, but it’s now too late for that, your relationship has progressed, and you just like many other men before you that
find themselves in a position that well; for the want of a better expression,
“you just can’t help yourself”. You’ve asked the lovely young lady to meet you outside of working hours and she has accepted, and now you feel on top of the world!
Now so that you can enjoy that first date and hopefully many more thereafter you need to now make
the transition from the “client/stripper” relationship to an everyday “man
meets woman” relationship. Oh dear, didn’t think of that did you? Yes
believe it or not, that seemingly provocative, naughty and very sexy girl that
lap-danced you week after week for payment is actually going to expect that you
treat her as a proper woman. Yes and if you don’t know what that means, it generally means you are going to have to wine and dine her just like any other woman out there which means you are not
getting a guaranteed lay on the first night!
Now one very important trap to avoid;
This trap is something that most men have fallen into and it’s not just for women you may have met in a strip club, this is an all-encompassing rule for all women you date for the
first time;
Never buy her a gift on the first date and don’t spoil her whatsoever in the first 6 months.
You see women are naturally very needy creatures, the need to be loved, and feel secure, security for some is money, but not all, but God help you if you nurture that materialistic need in women. If a woman loves you she will love you with or without money, and if she is going to hang around long-term she can at least wait 6 months right? Beware … there are some very ruthless and heartless women that will take you for every cent that you have and some.
That being said; perhaps I'm getting a little negative in my old age? God I hope not, this article is suppose to be sarcastic and funny, let me just slap myself and take a swig of Jack Daniels and re-think this whole matter ... hell yeah man, if you want to date a stripper go ahead and knock yourself out, have fun, enjoy and relish those sweet memories and if everything should fall apart, you can always drown your sorrows all over again with another stripper next month.
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