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Throughout the modern-age there has been an incredible amount of
literature published with the endeavor to make us men more aware of
what women really want, how they tick so to speak and what exactly
"gets them off".
The fact is we may never understand women entirely, frustrating or not we have a natural, inbuilt attraction and need to be with them, furthermore, some experts have indicated that if men treated their relationship with their partners as a business rather than just pure emotion, we would have more success. With this in mind we take a look at the flip-side of the coin, the profession of a stripper, whom makes a business of building relationships with their clients on one-by-one basis, the strategy used, when re-worked and re-applied could well make you a woman magnet.
So what can we learn possibly learn from strippers? Take the average stripper out of the strip club; you probably wouldn't be able to pick her out of a crowd of professional women; first glance they appear to be just like any other woman. However these women have evolved beyond their natural given instincts and perfected the art of seduction.
Let's analyse these very simple steps any stripper will use;
1. Establishes contact;
2. Builds a relationship with their client;
3. Tantalizes their senses;
4. Gives back a little;
5. Closes the sale.
Now if your like most men when you enter a strip club you believe that your very much in control of whom you spend time with, how much you spend and whether or not you get too emotionally involved, however nothing is really further from the truth.
It's really the stripper who makes first contact, she does this in a manner that's almost magical, raw animalistic eye-locking contact with several potential clients at once, being sure not to limit her prospects but making them feel that she is focusing her attention each one of them individually. All the while however, the stripper can amazingly a maintain poise and grace that makes her appear to be almost unattainable, however when the client shows and interest in the stripper by inviting her over to his table, the stripper takes the next step in the seduction process and will start to build a relationship with her client disarming the man by making him the center of attention.
As the client purchases one drink after another the stripper continues to build her relationship with the client she will listen to her client's experiences, tastes and values, the client is indulged and falls into a sense of security and trust as she adapts to her clients mood, the client is now in a state of relaxation and acceptance of what is about to unfold. When the stripper has built a level of trust she will begin to flirt with the client more and more, make flattering but believable remarks to her client, depending on the client the remarks may be physical, intellectual or even spiritual. The stripper becomes more and more flirtatious, sexual innuendos slip into the conversation more and more, the client becomes more and more excited and his thoughts that a natural attraction may exist are slipping into his mind.
At this point the stripper begins to tantalize the clients senses; a hand on the knee, a closer, almost intimate proximity with the client, the way she smiles or raises an eyebrow, she maintains almost constant eye-contact with her client, she is extremely clever and even if the client senses or realizes the game which she is playing, by this stage he is enjoying himself so much that he will continue despite it. A successful stripper will never whine or complain, she is a source of happiness and pleasure.
Sexually the stripper has got the client exactly where she need him, he is in a state of arousal, she has earned his trust, built a relationship with him and so he feels very comfortable with her and now somewhat a little sexually frustrated, it's at this time when experience strippers will know it's the right time to suggest or accept a lap-dance invitation with the client. (yes believe it or not strippers that accept lap dances too quickly from clients before establishing the first three steps actually reduce their potential overall revenue, timing is everything). It's the action and unfortunately the nature of the lap-dance that essentially gives something back to the client but does not quench their sexual thirst. For a stripper to make the most from each and every client she ensures that she arouses the client's senses even further without satisfying his needs, starting out slow and just giving a little more with each lap-dance, making them want more just prior to the cessation of the dance.
How well each stripper closes the sale differs from experience and believe it or not an attraction to the client in some cases, closing the sale is the combination of all steps, keeping the client in the club with her as long as possible, repeatedly buying drinks and lap-dances until the client realizes his emotions have taken enough for the evening or he runs out of money. The client will generally always leave happy, somewhat in a state of happiness, he has received something that he can't get from his girlfriend or wife; a listening ear and an erotic and flirtatious experience with a beautiful stranger. If the stripper has truly seduced her client he will continue coming back time after time, continuing to build their "business" relationship.
What can we learn from all of this? The stripper psyche is really a natural, yet over-heighten woman's way of getting what she really wants, women tease, they will keep a man wanting more and more and never quench their sexual thirst, if you apply this same methodology to women you will drive them wild, there is nothing like teasing and saying 'no' to a woman; it goes against their grain; you will get them so hot and frustrated they will literally rip your shirt off to have their way with you.
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