But something changed…
Women became tired of waiting at home, cleaning the baby’s nappies and ironing her husband’s clothes day-in and day-out, and for young women joining the workforce in the mid 1980’s their course had already been set, they were determined not to tread in the same steps as their battling mums had done before them.
Men lost all control, and life, as we knew it; was under-going an irreversible change.
These days for men that are married, come home to an un-kept and generally empty home, their wife or partner is also out at work and often returns home later than the average male, pursues the corporate ladder and excuse the pun, like a bitch on heat. The male picks up the children from day-care, cooks the meal, does the laundry and patiently waits for his partner to return and in some sick twist of fate still somehow falls into to some outdated statistical category that says that men still do little around the home!
Well it didn’t take long for men (married, single or repeatedly divorced) to realize that they now truly are holding the short end of the stick.
What was man going to do?
There is something about the atmosphere of a Strip Club, the way in which women strut their stuff on stage and not breaking eye contact is almost an animalistic approach that not only attracts men sexually but because of the eye contact that most women have mastered to enable to do their job well, it seems to offer men what they are so desperately in need off and they haven’t been able to get from today’s modern woman, “attention”.
Yes this fantasy world is all an act, the girls that are successful in any strip club do so because they know how to smile, communicate, appear happy and full of fun and vitality.
Let’s not forget, successful strippers are generally gifted in looks; but that’s not the sole key to a successful stripper, there are many strippers who are not the prettiest girl on the block but out-earn those that are. Successful strippers are enthusiastic, vibrant, they talk and they listen, they know how to make a man fall in love with them even if it’s just for the evening, that’s part of the great escape. A man can be pampered, indulged and feel that magical touch from a woman that really knows how to present herself to a man, the scent of a woman, her soft touch, that full-bodied well kept figure and lustful eye-contact that he just can’t get from his overworked partner at home, even if it’s just for the evening.
So there you have it, no need to feel guilty, it's one of life's small escapes, the last bastion of the male domain, enjoy it!
Of course everything that makes a Strip Club a great escape can also have its pitfalls and we will discuss this in our next article; "Understanding The Stripper Psyche So You Can Have Fun and Not Lose Your Wallet".
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